Comments on Christiana Rants!: To confess or not to confess?

THE TIP IS FIRE. I HOPE PEOPLE ARE READING!!

2010-11-30T12:36:32.516Z

THE TIP IS FIRE. I HOPE PEOPLE ARE READING!!

Honesty is not the best policy unless you want som...

2010-11-30T11:36:10.148Z

Honesty is not the best policy unless you want something and you know you are going to get it. I mean, why would i want to confess my feelings for someone who is in a relationship, unless when i want some of that? Or unless i know the other party involved is willing to give me what i want. I don't get it. Why would i see my so called friend happy and then want to risk her happiness. I know Love is a tricky business, but then again...what a mess

A great blog post once again!! Love it.

2010-11-29T18:21:01.743Z

A great blog post once again!! Love it.

No not worth it especially as his girlfriend aka l...

2010-11-29T15:15:38.973Z

No not worth it especially as his girlfriend aka love of his life is now pregnant. They are happy leave them be, she missed her chance.
Why did she suddenly realise she loves him once he met the love of his life? Could it be she is jealous because his attention is elsewhere and he is happy with another woman...like someone else mentioned if he is willing to up and leave his pregnant "love of his life" for her so easily what does it say about the type of man he is. Sorry she should be happy her friend is happy and move on with her life.
Sometimes people don't realise what they have until its gone or rather until someone else has it, a bit like kids and toys. The child puts the toy down, not really bothered about it sibling picks it up and starts playing with suddenly they want to play with it again...WW3 ensues fighting for this toy (neither of them really want it they just don't want the other to have it)

Her friends are not serious if they are advising her to tell him and potentially cause his pregnant woman misery if he does decide to leave her....

This is the same situation Im in minus the lady fr...

2010-11-28T11:08:37.731Z

This is the same situation Im in minus the lady friend having a baby on the way. I decided a long time ago it wasnt worth the end of our friendship plus he's with the love of his life. I know I dont want a serious anything right now and he's a little older so he's ready to settle down. I really think she should just let it go. He may have feelings for her but not want to over step his boundaries. Who knows maybe later on they'll figure it out. As of now its really not worth it. Sadly.

I agree that she shouldn't reveal anything. Li...

2010-11-27T20:05:41.955Z

I agree that she shouldn't reveal anything. Like you said "Love" implies self-sacrifice and the to presume that potentially ruining the stable family that her best friend's child will be born into (through breaking up his relationship) is silly. Thats not love, thats selfishness of the highest order. Moreover, if the friend had feelings for her, he would have revealed them to her before therefore as he is now in a relationship with someone else, I would consider that any opportunity she would have had is likely to have gone. Besides, even if she did reveal and was successful in her quest and he chose to be with her, is that really the sort of guy any reasonable, sane woman would want to be with? One who would bail out on her for some next chick (best friend or not) when she is pregnant with his kid?

@David A Smith -- I love the pic -- Made me rememb...

2010-11-27T11:06:36.024Z

@David A Smith -- I love the pic -- Made me remember why I once loved math!

Taking bets on the number of people baffled by tha...

2010-11-26T23:28:05.376Z

Taking bets on the number of people baffled by that picture...