Friday, 27 May 2011

Create Don't Hate



Happy Friday,

I finally got around to posting this video blog! I recorded it a few weeks back (before I went very blonde at the front of my hair) and kept procrastinating, hence why it didn't go up. Alas I have may vices and procrastinating is the one I can't seem to shake. Procrastinating, over-shopping, over-thinking, under-exercising....yeah let me not list my vices!

As per usual I won't extrapolate further on the content in the vlog. The title sums up its message 'Create Don't Hate'. As a victim of anonymous internet haters via comment sections *waves at the e-haters*, I guess this is the closest thing those people will get to a response. Create more than you criticise. If you're doing more criticising than creating, you're wasting your life. Life is too short to spend it tearing down others, build up yourself so you can in turn help someone else. If you find you have so much vitriol within you, you're compelled to transfer that negative energy to someone else, seek therapy. I say that in all seriousness. Your pain is not there to be transferred to someone else. It is your responsibility to deal with your pain and by doing so you become a better person. Let me stop! I'm trying to not come across as a didactic elitist... : )

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At the moment I'm awaiting an ASOS delivery. Pretty convinced that shopping was ordained by God, but internet shopping was the brainchild of Satan. Do you know how many hours I spend on netaporter.com? There's only so much shoe porn a woman can watch without giving in and becoming a participant. I don't know the names of many of my cousins, however I know the names of shoes, bags and dresses. Why am I telling you this? Oh yes I'm awaiting my ASOS delivery, so I must go because I don't want to miss it. Plus I think I've divulged enough about my sick (yet oh so delightful) sartorial addiction(s).

Hope you all have an excellent weekend and thank you for all the support.

Best,

Christiana

xxx

5 comments:

  1. I learned alot from this Christiana...you're so right! People just leave nasty comments for no reason!

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  2. Great vlog! lots of interesting food for thought. Thank you for taking the time to record it and share!!!!.....but earlier this week you tweeted
    "Dear America, Please reconsider. You can keep Cheryl Cole. We really don't want her back. Love, England"
    which is a slightly mean comment, i'm sure you were joking but it's still - could be hurtful to Cheryl????!! xxxxxxxxxxx

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  3. I think you're FUCKING amazing. I think you're funny, smart, beautiful and a great example to young women out there! We need more smart and beautiful women like you in the world! Keep doing your thing, Christiana, you truly do inspire me! xxx

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  4. My favorite take on haters: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4NwouN_KigY

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  5. Great point!
    I live by this now
    Every-time I tweet or even think of saying something remotely negative, I wonder if its really necessary? Is this really worthwhile? Am i adding to the junk pile of negativity? or Inspiring minds with new ideas?

    yeah..I know, in the end its just twitter right?

    Stephanie
    ItzSpittingGlitter.Blogpot.com

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